Wednesday, February 4, 2015

Loosing a friend....


I was supposed to share something to you today other than this.

But I absolutely can't.

Our hearts are crying once again with the loss of a very close friend in the Philippines.

ALLAN PAUL VICENTE QUINTERO
April 24, 1975 - February 3, 2015
He was a classmate since college, my husband's during med school and a very close friend.
In our country, we call this a "Kabarkada" or buddy.

We've shared so many things together and among the male friends I have, I consider him one of my closest.

We were so shocked when we found out two days ago. He was so young (39) to have a heart attack?! 
I cried and cried and truly regret the missed opportunity of seeing him last December when he came to the U.S. He didn't want to imply on us about meeting up since he knew we just had a baby and was busy, I only found out when he emailed me last January 12 and I told him, he should've let us known since we would've surely found the time to see him... and now, he's gone.

Mourning far away is so hard too.
The only connection I have right now are with our common friends in Facebook.

All we could do is pray. 
Pray for him and his daughter and wife he left behind.

He will surely be missed by his patients as well.
But for us, we will miss the laughter and togetherness we could've still had with him.

May you rest in peace dear friend... We love you.



VEL
Posted by at
Labels:

29 comments:

  1. Pat@Life At Lydias HouseFebruary 4, 2015 at 10:10 PM

    I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. I will join you in praying for his family and also that you will be comforted as you deal with this loss.

    ReplyDelete
  2. Laurel StephensFebruary 4, 2015 at 10:11 PM

    Oh, Vel, I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear friend. My heart goes out to you.

    ReplyDelete
  3. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2015 at 10:11 PM

    Oh, Vel! I'm so very sorry to hear this. You and your family will be in my prayers.
    Blessings,
    Shelia

    ReplyDelete
  4. Jennifer @ Dimples and TanglesFebruary 4, 2015 at 11:26 PM

    I'm so sorry that you lost your friend, Vel!

    ReplyDelete
  5. BrandiFebruary 5, 2015 at 1:52 AM

    So sorry for the loss of your dear friend, Vel.

    ReplyDelete
  6. LussiFebruary 5, 2015 at 4:15 AM

    My condolences....I know how do U feel....Now U have to pray...

    ReplyDelete
  7. RonFebruary 5, 2015 at 5:32 AM

    Sorry for your loss- gone too soon. Prayers your way!

    ReplyDelete
  8. Maria ElenaFebruary 5, 2015 at 7:15 AM

    Vel, I am so sorry for the loss of your dear friend. Life is so unfair sometimes. Praying for his family and yours. Big hug, Maria

    ReplyDelete
  9. UnknownFebruary 5, 2015 at 8:00 AM

    My sincere condolences ... I feel really sorry for you, God bless him !

    ReplyDelete
  10. Marty@A Stroll Thru LifeFebruary 5, 2015 at 8:17 AM

    I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep his family in prayer. God Bless.

    ReplyDelete
  11. Lisa @ Shine Your LightFebruary 5, 2015 at 8:36 AM

    Vel, I'm so very sorry for the loss of your dear friend. XOX

    ReplyDelete
  12. Sam | Away She WentFebruary 5, 2015 at 9:56 AM

    Sorry for your loss!

    ReplyDelete
  13. Sandy at You May Be WanderingFebruary 5, 2015 at 10:04 AM

    Dear Vel, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dear friend. It must be doubly hard when you are so far away. Hugs to you, my friend!

    ReplyDelete
  14. AnonymousFebruary 5, 2015 at 11:31 AM

    So very sorry to hear of your loss. Saying prayers for comfort and peace for you, your family and his family as well.

    ReplyDelete
  15. Magali@TheLittleWhiteHouseFebruary 5, 2015 at 3:26 PM

    So sorry to read that dreadful news for you. I'll keep you in my thoughts.

    ReplyDelete
  16. Liz@ HomeandGardeningWithLizFebruary 5, 2015 at 3:32 PM

    How tragic Vel . So sorry for your loss. Praying that you'll be comforted in the days ahead with good memories.

    ReplyDelete
  17. Kristy Woodson HarveyFebruary 5, 2015 at 4:04 PM

    So sorry to hear that, Vel. Losing a friend is so difficult. Sending prayers and love your way.

    ReplyDelete
  18. Lisa @ Texas DecorFebruary 5, 2015 at 4:12 PM

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your wonderful friend. Thinking of you and sending prayers and hugs your way.

    ReplyDelete
  19. Kim February 5, 2015 at 4:47 PM

    So sorry, Vel.

    ReplyDelete
  20. Darnetha | ChippaSunshineFebruary 5, 2015 at 6:41 PM

    So sorry, Vel, for the loss of your friend.

    ReplyDelete
  21. pam {simple details}February 5, 2015 at 10:55 PM

    Vel, I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend, sending prayers for you and his family. xoxo

    ReplyDelete
  22. Sweet Parrish PlaceFebruary 5, 2015 at 11:03 PM

    I am very sorry for your loss Dear Vel. I will say a prayer for peace to you and your husband.

    ReplyDelete
  23. Cindy @ Dwellings-The Heart of Your HomeFebruary 7, 2015 at 2:51 PM

    So very sorry Vel! So very sorry!
    Blessings,
    Cindy

    ReplyDelete
  24. Patty AntleFebruary 8, 2015 at 10:35 AM

    So sorry Vel. What a lovely friend he was to you.

    ReplyDelete
  25. JessieFebruary 8, 2015 at 3:01 PM

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss, Vel.

    Hugs and blessings,
    Jessie

    ReplyDelete
  26. DianeFebruary 9, 2015 at 12:25 PM

    Oh Vel! I just saw this post and my heart goes out to you and your family! I will be praying for your friend's wife and daughter. What a terrible loss - many, many hugs, my friend!!!

    ReplyDelete
  27. Woodside ParkFebruary 9, 2015 at 10:15 PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss, Vel. Cherish the precious memories of your dear friend. Sending you love and prayers. Warmly, L

    ReplyDelete
  28. Kris @ Driven by DécorFebruary 10, 2015 at 7:51 PM

    I'm so sorry Vel - long distance hugs and prayers are coming your way!

    ReplyDelete
  29. StaceyFebruary 13, 2015 at 12:19 PM

    I saw your post on IG. I'm so sorry for your loss Vel... Sending love n hugs.

    ReplyDelete

Thank you for reading my blog! Hope you can stop by again sometime! Have a Wonderful Day!!